Challenges of Parenting in the 21st Century are discussed in this article and we hope you find it informative and helpful for your research.
Nurturing a kid from childhood to pre-adulthood before finally weaning them into self-dependence is no easy task and especially so for those who want to do it well.
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Many people are determined to be great dads and moms, to make up for their parents’ inadequacies, but when they finally started a family they found out that parenting was not a piece of cake after all.
Good parenting is like what a gardener does to flowers with his shears. He trims the flowers without taking away it’s beauty or tampering with its roots.
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This does not mean that gardening is a smooth, frictionless activity. Good gardeners know that they must handle with care, the delicate plants. Children are delicate and it doesn’t always take more than one bad slash to ruin your chances of being their greatest influencers.
In this article, the parenting challenges faced by dads, moms, and foster parents will be highlighted. All potential parents and newlyweds who are expecting a baby and parents who have tried out from the strain parenting puts on everyone.
It will be informative enough to help them go through the rigors of parenting without ruining their relationship with their kids.
Parenting Challenges in Contemporary Society
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Below are the common Parenting Challenges in Contemporary Society:
1. Addiction to cellphones and other gadgets
Most parents cannot make head or tail of what keeps their children glued to screens. Why they can’t go about their chores except they are policed because they’ll get back to their phones in no time.
Parents need to know that it is a part of the digital craze and the dynamism of teenage life requires that they stay up to date about trends. So a little admonition here and there will be better than confiscating cellphones and laptops.
2. Siblings brawl
The fight among siblings sometimes seems like an endless string when they are younger and may fade into a bond as they grow older.
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Parents worry that the fights might aggravate and eat into adulthood, thereby leaving a gully in what should have been a great family.
One way to deal with this is to stop preferential treatment or favoritism that makes one or more of your kids feel left out. It is okay to be fond of one child over the other, but it is not okay to let it show.
3. Great concern about their children’s zero or low interest in academics
Every parent wants a kid they can be proud of. They want to be able to talk at the Parents’ Teachers Association meeting; want to be able to hold their heads high during the speech and prize-giving ceremonies at their ward’s school and also attend convocation ceremonies to have their kids win student of the year prizes.
So it is difficult for them to see that a child isn’t interested in studying. One way to handle this is to know the interests of your child and find a way to mix them with his or her educational activities.
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If your ward likes dancing, get a dance instructor who comes twice a week as his home lesson teacher does. Other challenges might include poor eating habits, inability to deal with peer pressures and those peculiar to your kid only needs a gentle dialogue and not a harsh approach that turns parents into scarecrows.